Hmm. Strap implies that my partner doesn’t have a penis. If that means my partner is a woman…no I wouldn’t, sorry.
However! If my partner was a pre/no-OP trans man…fuck yes I’m sucking the strap :3
Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Enbies are valid.

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    I would…demand that someone suck my strap hehe (and have done so in the past).

    I don’t think I’d get on my knees that way again at this point in my life, but maybe if the strap wearer were really, really convincing…

  • Miisha’s back!

    Not gonna say I wouldn’t, but I kinda prefer real cock (regardless of if it’s attatched to a man or a woman). Given the scenario, events must have transpired to bring me into the situation so, yeah, yeah I would.

    Oooh, can it be one of those strapless strapons so that my head movements get translated into something they’d actually feel? Now that sounds juicy

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      Not gonna say I wouldn’t, but I kinda prefer real cock

      Totally get that! When there’s an option, the real thing is the way to go. The real thing is just…unique and irreplaceable, lul

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    You need a little more fantasy, penis havers can absolutely use a strap! Why would they? Maybe their penis is small (or their partner a massive size queen). Maybe they’re combining it with a chastity cage for kinky denial play. Maybe they have massive bottom dysphoria but are somehow fine with fucking their partner with a strap.

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      or their partner a massive size queen

      I see…I never even considered that. Although, in my honest opinion, the real thing is always better, no matter the size, lol
      I don’t have to worry about that tho. My bf is…not small 👀

      Maybe they have massive bottom dysphoria but are somehow fine with fucking their partner with a strap

      That would also kinda make sense!

      Huh. I need a bit more fantasy I guess 😆

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    Enbies are valid.

    I just need to hammer it into my core and eventually I believe that :(

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      Good, I’m happy for you!
      Also please don’t call me buddy.

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          My first thought upon reading that last sentence lol

          LOL
          Not bad 😂

          What would you consider to be an acceptable substitute?

          Either Miisha or girl, girlie, sis or whatever else you’d call a fellow trans woman is fine. Thanks ♥️

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            I can do girl lol, ironically the reason I said buddy is because I thought “dude” or “guy” might be too gendered and buddy felt gender-neutral.

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              It is gender-neutral…I’m just way too oversensitive lol. I apologize. And…thanks! 🩷

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              I’ve know that some people consider “dude” genderneutral, but this is the first I’ve heard this about “buddy”…

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                To me buddy and dude are gender neutral. Dude’s been like that since at least the mid-90’s. Bro is pretty much there too nowadays, especially with American younger Gen-Z. Ultimately it is up to the recipient. If they say, don’t call me X, I don’t use X. No debate.

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    Just yesterday a lovely friend made me realize how much of a turn on sucking on a dildo is for me. So yeah, if the wearer’s into that I definitely would.

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      Omggg! That’s so sweet (and dirty!) of them <3
      It’s…fine, honestly. I remember during my Reddit femboy phase, people would ask me for various types of pictures. One person in particular asked my to send him pictures of me sucking and licking a dildo. Of course, I had a couple at the time already, so I used the red one, lol
      While I was doing it, my brain was like “Wtf am I doing with my life 😭. I could be sucking someone’s dick right now and I’m sucking on a piece of silicone for men more than double my age on Reddit”, but I sent the pics anyway and got some positive reactions. These days tho, I think much more positively of it, even tho they’re just dildos. It’s good practice anyway :3

      Sorry for the late reply, this is my final alt account, lol

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        You’ve got such nice toys! That red one with the knot, I definitely want one like that eventually. If you’re up for something different and intense I can’t recommend enough a steel toy. Easily my collection’s fave at the moment. (for butt play of course, not for sucking~)

        Toys are a godsend for self discovery and for fun with far away friends. A tool of emancipation if you ask me.

        I really understand the shame from being sexually playful. I used to foster a lot of self loathing towards it. Nowadays I prefer to consider myself a threat to the heteronormative sexual order >:3