Hmm. Strap implies that my partner doesn’t have a penis. If that means my partner is a woman…no I wouldn’t, sorry.
However! If my partner was a pre/no-OP trans man…fuck yes I’m sucking the strap :3
Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Enbies are valid.

  • velma@sh.itjust.worksEnglish
    7·
    14 hours ago

    I would…demand that someone suck my strap hehe (and have done so in the past).

    I don’t think I’d get on my knees that way again at this point in my life, but maybe if the strap wearer were really, really convincing…

  • 𝕲𝖑𝖎𝖙𝖈𝖍🔻𝕯𝖃 (he/him)@lemmy.worldEnglish
    6·
    14 hours ago

    Miisha’s back!

    Not gonna say I wouldn’t, but I kinda prefer real cock (regardless of if it’s attatched to a man or a woman). Given the scenario, events must have transpired to bring me into the situation so, yeah, yeah I would.

    Oooh, can it be one of those strapless strapons so that my head movements get translated into something they’d actually feel? Now that sounds juicy

  • macniel@feddit.orgEnglish
    6·
    21 hours ago

    Enbies are valid.

    I just need to hammer it into my core and eventually I believe that :(

  • luciole (they/them)@beehaw.orgEnglish
    1·
    15 hours ago

    Just yesterday a lovely friend made me realize how much of a turn on sucking on a dildo is for me. So yeah, if the wearer’s into that I definitely would.

  • rumschlumpel@feddit.orgEnglish
    19·
    1 day ago

    You need a little more fantasy, penis havers can absolutely use a strap! Why would they? Maybe their penis is small (or their partner a massive size queen). Maybe they’re combining it with a chastity cage for kinky denial play. Maybe they have massive bottom dysphoria but are somehow fine with fucking their partner with a strap.

    • Miisha@lemmy.zipdeleted by creatorOPEnglish
      6·
      1 day ago

      or their partner a massive size queen

      I see…I never even considered that. Although, in my honest opinion, the real thing is always better, no matter the size, lol
      I don’t have to worry about that tho. My bf is…not small 👀

      Maybe they have massive bottom dysphoria but are somehow fine with fucking their partner with a strap

      That would also kinda make sense!

      Huh. I need a bit more fantasy I guess 😆

    • Miisha@lemmy.zipdeleted by creatorOPEnglish
      11·
      1 day ago

      Good, I’m happy for you!
      Also please don’t call me buddy.

        • Miisha@lemmy.zipdeleted by creatorOPEnglish
          10·
          1 day ago

          My first thought upon reading that last sentence lol

          LOL
          Not bad 😂

          What would you consider to be an acceptable substitute?

          Either Miisha or girl, girlie, sis or whatever else you’d call a fellow trans woman is fine. Thanks ♥️

          • Clarion_Fae@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish
            8·
            1 day ago

            I can do girl lol, ironically the reason I said buddy is because I thought “dude” or “guy” might be too gendered and buddy felt gender-neutral.

            • Miisha@lemmy.zipdeleted by creatorOPEnglish
              91·
              1 day ago

              It is gender-neutral…I’m just way too oversensitive lol. I apologize. And…thanks! 🩷

            • rumschlumpel@feddit.orgEnglish
              3·
              1 day ago

              I’ve know that some people consider “dude” genderneutral, but this is the first I’ve heard this about “buddy”…

              • Jo Miran@lemmy.mlMEnglish
                4·
                1 day ago

                To me buddy and dude are gender neutral. Dude’s been like that since at least the mid-90’s. Bro is pretty much there too nowadays, especially with American younger Gen-Z. Ultimately it is up to the recipient. If they say, don’t call me X, I don’t use X. No debate.