Same, I lost my shit with someone at the DMV because I needed one of those new ‘real’ IDs because I really needed to travel. But I lost my birth certificate in a fire and so i couldn’t even get that. I had to take time off work to try and get and they were pissed about that. So now I am going through this while being angry with myself and I took it out on someone who didn’t deserve it because I was a bitch who needed to be angry at someone else.
don’t be too hard on yourself. the fact that you’re remorseful about it should be all the proof you need to show that you were just having a bad day(or couple months).
even Mr. Rogers had bad days. it’s about dealing with your feelings and owning them.
if you feel that bad you should send the person some chocolates or just straight up apologize for your behavior. who knows, maybe it’ll make their own horrible day alittle better.
Same, I lost my shit with someone at the DMV because I needed one of those new ‘real’ IDs because I really needed to travel. But I lost my birth certificate in a fire and so i couldn’t even get that. I had to take time off work to try and get and they were pissed about that. So now I am going through this while being angry with myself and I took it out on someone who didn’t deserve it because I was a bitch who needed to be angry at someone else.
I hate myself so much.
don’t be too hard on yourself. the fact that you’re remorseful about it should be all the proof you need to show that you were just having a bad day(or couple months).
even Mr. Rogers had bad days. it’s about dealing with your feelings and owning them.
if you feel that bad you should send the person some chocolates or just straight up apologize for your behavior. who knows, maybe it’ll make their own horrible day alittle better.