Some days, i feel happy, and other days i feel completely lost. I miss the bubbly innocent version of myself who could enjoy little things without overthinking everything. This breakup has changed me in ways I never expected. I don’t understand why I struggle to feel genuinely happy why crowded places make me anxious or why I sometimes feel like I’ll never heal from this. Is it normal to feel this way after a painful breakup.
Today is 38th day of no contact
Been there my friend. I only had a job and was doing sports I ended up quitting.
I forced myself to meet new people: tinder, improv, English speaking club in my area, death cafe, local festivals, Marx reading club. I was full of cringe and physical pain due to cringe, but also met a fistful of nice people and my future wife.
It’s not advice, but it worked for me. Doesn’t mean that it’d work for you or if I did something else I wouldn’t recover.
Advice is not to buy easy solutions like hatered, neglect or ultimate egoism. These are easy to follow, but do not yield anything