left is 7mo girl Mary, right is 8yo boy Tishka

  • kayzeekayzee@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    17 days ago

    I don’t think cats have a social structure complex enough to even have a concept of gender, so they probably don’t care how I refer to them

          • dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            17 days ago

            hm, I guess I’ve been socialized to think it’s normal … in some obvious sense it’s weird, but no more weird than us thinking of pets as morally the same as humans, for example - we anthropomorphize and project things onto objects and animals that aren’t there, we read intention where there is none, etc. - so in the same way we project our human experience of gender onto non-human animals. In some sense that feels entirely natural and consistent with other human tendencies. But yeah, it’s weird when we examine it the right way.