A spanking can be delivered in many different ways.

It could be a playful slap of the arse which signifies affection or a little hint at the naughtiness to come. It could be a stronger strike, maybe as they hold you by the wrist, which makes it perfectly clear that when they fuck you, it’s going to be hard and rough.

Of course, then there’s the type of spanking which is an accompaniment to being mounted from behind and fucked. This kind of spanking could signal that they’re not content with simply the delicious discomfort of their cock railing deep into your guts, they want to remind you that, right now, they own that arse of yours. It could be to provide a beautiful sharp stingy counterpoint to the unadulterated pleasure of your cunt wrapping progressively tighter around their cock, one that will both hasten and intensify the way you cum for them.

Then, there’s the punishment spankings, an exercise in authority and a demonstration that actions have consequences. These spankings have a ritualistic element to them: explaining yourself, having your knickers torn down, being bent over, maybe across their knee before your arse is turned red and you demonstrate your contrition, earning respite. There’s a continuum for these kinds of spankings, they can be delicate, affectionate and filled with loving yet condescending intent or they can be severe and humiliating, their care being reserved for after the event so that, in the moment your fight or flight instinct mingles intoxicatingly with your arousal to achieve maximum impact. Maybe you’re restrained, maybe you hold still, maybe you must wear a plug as your arse contracts with the impact, maybe you’re gagged. The variations are endless.

I’m curious, if you’re a fan of spanking or being spanked, which variety or varieties are your favourite and what makes you so fond of them?

  • Sarah@lemmynsfw.comEnglish
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    21 days ago

    Big fan of spanking because pain and pleasure are way more connected than most people know !

    https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20151001-why-pain-feels-good

    “The link between pleasure and pain is deeply rooted in our biology. For a start, all pain causes the central nervous system to release endorphins – proteins which act to block pain and work in a similar way to opiates such as morphine to induce feelings of euphoria.”

    And

    "Meanwhile, the pain of intense exercise also causes a spike in another of the body’s painkillers, anandamide. Known as the ‘bliss chemical’, it binds to cannabinoid receptors in the brain to block pain signals and induce the warm, fuzzy pleasure emulated by marijuana, which binds to the same receptors. Adrenaline, also produced in response to pain, adds to the excitement by raising the athlete’s heart rate. "

    When done properly pain is like administering at least 3 drugs at once, opiates from the endorphins, THC from anandamide and an amphetamine like effect from Adrenaline (I believe the correct name for the hormone is epinephrine)

    So who needs drugs really?

    Plus it’s just really fun to tie a lady up and smack the shit out of her.