I meant being GNC having the effect of attracting trans/queer people in non-queer spaces. I don’t usually care enough about people’s perception to intentionally mess with it, however I guess it also helps me spot the people I want to avoid early on.

Also I’d love to pick your (or anyone’s with relevant experience) brain about the possible differences. However I’m pretty sure that’s not discussion for public forum. The chance of me asking a demeaning question or phrasing something really badly would be fairly high.

Oh sure, the acceptance is there as I said.

However rejecting all societal defaults, having no clear path forward and little to use for guidance or example is certainly a rather specific mood. As much liberating it can also be.

Regarding the OP, I actually rather enjoy when me being visibly gender non-conforming has this effect on people.

And you’re right, we could definitely use more variety of takes on here. Maybe I’ll be the enbyposter I want to see in the world.

Moe anime girls are invasive species. Beatiful 90s futch tomboy anime girls with huge hair who drink a lot and wear tank tops all the time were driven to extinction by moe catgirl in a maid costume who goes “wehh”. Those are the apex predators. They dominate ruthlessly with reckless abandon. Terrifying beasts.

That said, I don’t think there’s HRT that would give you yaoi-sized hands. An allergic reaction might.

I am conflicted on this.

While the trans community is generally supportive, as non-binary person I have hard time relating to most trans conversations, resources, memes, etc.

Is it weird that I still feel alone?