

It’s not about them existing
that’s what it’s turned into though… the UK supreme court just basically ruled that trans people don’t exist, and the US has banned gender markers on passports that don’t match your birth certificate, as well as all the horrible things happening in florida and texas
women’s changing rooms, bathrooms
there’s a few things to unpack there…
first, if you believe trans people should be allowed to exist, then there are trans men that look wayyyyyy more masc than most men do so you’re forcing a bearded, muscly dude to use the women’s bathroom: not exactly what anyone wants if when presenting good faith arguments
second, what’s the issue this causes? lesbians and gay men already exist, and are allowed into the bathrooms of the gender they’re sexually attracted to and it doesn’t cause an issue
third, it’s an invented problem… trans people have been going into the bathrooms they feel like using for quite some time and have never caused issues until it started to become a hot topic, and the people causing issues were the people trying to yell at trans people and instead started yelling at women who “looked manly”. trans people don’t want to cause waves - they want to blend in…
as for men who identify as men going into women’s bathrooms to be pervs, well, that’s easy - we already have laws against that and they were working fine
sports teams
sure, that one’s less clear cut when athletes haven’t taken steps to affirm their gender
but again it hasn’t really been a problem: men tend not to want to say they’re women, take estrogen, and have surgery on their cock and balls (a phalloplasty, which costs $20k-$50k) to beat women at sports (or to enter the women’s bathroom to be a perv)
and for kids sports - a category of humans who are not given surgery despite what some elements in the debate would have people believe - gender is irrelevant until puberty, and afaik the standard treatment for trans kids is puberty blockers, which are entirely reversible and essentially make the issue of male muscle bulk irrelevant too (again, these entirely reversible, safe medicines designed to give people more time to explore their gender identity with an adult brain have been banned in several places across the US - a move that is only about hurting people or ignorance and erasing trans existence)
as someone else pointed out a specific example that comes up regularly (this is apparently already how it works): 1 particular brand of peanut butter was available, but their lite version wasn’t… with a cart full of groceries, figuring out exactly what gets paid for with what or what needs to be put back isn’t a fast process… this takes not only the persons time, but the cashiers time and everyone behind them in the queue
these are things we call negative externalities: costs forced to other places in the system without being accounted for in price
there are many, many, MANY more costs associated with any government program and intervention but this specific example would cost the country as a whole far more than the occasional unhealthy snack