Erotic fantasy is what it is, we get ideas that evolve and become intense sources of pleasure. Some fantasies are inherently hotter in theory, some are unfeasible/impractical to realise, and some could be fun to try in a safe and consensual setting. Some you’ll want to keep, some let go of, and most you’ll continously re-evaluate as you and the ideas continue evolving.

(The Erotic Mind by Jack Morin is a fantastic read on the topic)

Having fantasies is entirely normal, including of “extreme” situations, it is part of how we deal with stuff and how we explore what brings us pleasure and release. They’re typically not problematic until they keep you from living your best life (like if they get intrusive or compulsory), or if they cause you harm to think about or realise.

Besides, there are many things to find hot in such a scenario: being the vessel for someone’s pleasure, releasing your self image, relinquishing/surrendering control, breaking taboo/norms that keep you from pleasure, feeling vulnerable, feelling prized/conquered, as well as simply the prolonged agony in teetering between ecstasy and pain before exploding in intense pleasure.

I find many of those hot with the right partner, and in my experience variations of these aren’t at all uncommon.

There is however one thing to keep on watch for, self harm through risky behaviour. Good kinky fun is great and healthy, as long as you go into it with consent (including a way to revoke it at any time), some idea of boundaries/limits and a respectful discussion with your potential partners to make sure you all understand, trust and can manage unexpected situations together.

This is mostly only necessary for realising the fantasy though, in your mind’s theatre you can go as wild as you please. Regardless, I wish you many orgasms and more pleasure!