We’re not neurotypical either, so this argument doesn’t work ioo.
Again, pronouns don’t de-anonymise as much as you seem to be implying. They’re just a politeness. A lot of us have fought long and hard for such things, to be told that all the work we have put in isn’t worth it because others can’t be bothered to do a simple click or tap and read is in our opinion erasure and we don’t accept that in our communities.
Also we don’t buy the idea that Lemmy is inherently meant to be anonymous to such extreme degrees, or at all. If you don’t want to reveal yourself at all, that’s fine. But we are fine having our pronouns etc out there and feel strongly that they should be respected and we’re going to keep pointing them out.
We sorry you’re hurt. But we’re also hurt by the idea that we can’t get basic respect. So is our only solution to really write out our pronouns etc every single time? If so, so be it. Though that seems untenable for many here.
We also don’t agree that that’s the culture here. However, if it is then again, why should profiles even exist as an option? Maybe somebody should just open an issue to have them removed and we’ll just have to tell people everything that would have been in them every time as seems to be the case anyway.
Edit: We feel comfortable using this social media because we can be who we really are, even if that’s semi-anonymous you seem to be trying to push us to go to another where we’re fully de-anonymised (which we don’t want). But there is nothing we wish to use apart from this and other things on fedi: kbin, mbin, piefed and whenever it gets released sublinks will seemingly all have the same ‘culture’ but there’s nothing else we want to use apart from fedi things. So what would you have us do?
We didn’t mean accounts, we meant getting rid of the option for any information to be in ‘profiles’ if others aren’t interested in, or are unable to read them for a plethora of reasons.
No, we don’t. We wish you happy travels and enjoying your stay wherever you should end up, even if it’s here. Despite everything our desire wasn’t for you to leave, only to figure out a solution.
We’re not neurotypical either, so this argument doesn’t work ioo.
Again, pronouns don’t de-anonymise as much as you seem to be implying. They’re just a politeness. A lot of us have fought long and hard for such things, to be told that all the work we have put in isn’t worth it because others can’t be bothered to do a simple click or tap and read is in our opinion erasure and we don’t accept that in our communities.
Also we don’t buy the idea that Lemmy is inherently meant to be anonymous to such extreme degrees, or at all. If you don’t want to reveal yourself at all, that’s fine. But we are fine having our pronouns etc out there and feel strongly that they should be respected and we’re going to keep pointing them out.
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We sorry you’re hurt. But we’re also hurt by the idea that we can’t get basic respect. So is our only solution to really write out our pronouns etc every single time? If so, so be it. Though that seems untenable for many here.
We also don’t agree that that’s the culture here. However, if it is then again, why should profiles even exist as an option? Maybe somebody should just open an issue to have them removed and we’ll just have to tell people everything that would have been in them every time as seems to be the case anyway.
Edit: We feel comfortable using this social media because we can be who we really are, even if that’s semi-anonymous you seem to be trying to push us to go to another where we’re fully de-anonymised (which we don’t want). But there is nothing we wish to use apart from this and other things on fedi: kbin, mbin, piefed and whenever it gets released sublinks will seemingly all have the same ‘culture’ but there’s nothing else we want to use apart from fedi things. So what would you have us do?
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We didn’t mean accounts, we meant getting rid of the option for any information to be in ‘profiles’ if others aren’t interested in, or are unable to read them for a plethora of reasons.
No, we don’t. We wish you happy travels and enjoying your stay wherever you should end up, even if it’s here. Despite everything our desire wasn’t for you to leave, only to figure out a solution.