Yeah we were married for three years when my egg cracked. She’s bisexual which helped. But when I told her, she said “I knew it, I told you so” …and she had told me so.
A few times before my egg cracked she had just straight up told me that if I was a trans woman, she’d still love me and stay with me. I always brushed it off tho cuz I was going through the process of learning and accepting that I’m bisexual. Which was a (comparatively) easy process, but I always just assumed when I acted feminine that it was somehow because I was bi… So some internalized homophobia/biphobia mixed with cognitive dissonance 🙃
Since we’re asking private questions, did you get married before transitioning? Really curious how your partner took it.
My wife’s never really identified as female so I’m cool with it, just wondering what other people’s experiences are, please ignore if uncomfortable!
Yeah we were married for three years when my egg cracked. She’s bisexual which helped. But when I told her, she said “I knew it, I told you so” …and she had told me so.
A few times before my egg cracked she had just straight up told me that if I was a trans woman, she’d still love me and stay with me. I always brushed it off tho cuz I was going through the process of learning and accepting that I’m bisexual. Which was a (comparatively) easy process, but I always just assumed when I acted feminine that it was somehow because I was bi… So some internalized homophobia/biphobia mixed with cognitive dissonance 🙃
Now that is a beautiful love story. ♥️