So I had crazy amount of Karma and was very involved in Reddit where I built quite a community and made friends. I went into a marriage sub and must have offended someone and I got suspended from that sub. I think I commented ‘I think I messaged you on another sub where you wrote the same thing to help’ this sub is no DMs and I wasn’t talking about messaging the other woman from this sub but another one and as a lady too I just wanted to help her. It was an innocent misunderstanding. Months later I decided to make a throw away account to ask something I didn’t want to ask with my main account. Accidentally commented in the marriage sub with my throw away account completely forgetting that months ago my main account was already suspending in that sub. BAM I got ban evasion. Since then no matter what account I make hours later it’s also banned. It really sucks cause I honestly made a mistake. I tried to get the ban appealed but it was denied. So here I am now trying to learn the lemme thing!
Yeah I’m still trying to understand these ‘servers’ but I’ll get there lol thanks so much for the support
If you go to the lemmy information site, it shows you all the sites in the fedivesre. https://lemmy.fediverse.observer/list - most people have signed up on lemmy.world, but you can join any one then subscribe to a community (subreddit) on other sites (instances) from the one you signed up on. The posts all cross link to the various instances.
The practical upshot is, if you get banned from one instance, (you’d have to really be doing asshole things, BTW - the site owners and most mods are really laid back - no corporate, censorious, ownership for the most part) you can go sign back up on another one.