• amgine@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    If you can give me my most niche hobby with tits, I’m going to click it over the video without tits

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      1 day ago

      Really? When I see a video like that, any horniness is overruled by the ick factor of using sex to advertise. If you need to show off your boobs to get views, I assume the content beyond the boobs isn’t worth watching

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          21 hours ago

          They said “with tits” and that’s not how I would describe the video in the post just because the host is a woman so I didn’t think they meant this one in particular

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          21 hours ago

          That style of shirt is pretty much designed to draw attention there. No slut shaming or anything at all, but she knows what she is doing.

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            You cannot even tell from the thumbnail if she has substantial breasts anyways. She could be a mastectomy patient for all you can tell from the image. You assuming this is sexual is way more objectifying than anyone clicking the attractive woman video because attractive woman. You are imposing your personal sexualized assumptions about her because she has a little midriff showing. Midriff is not inherently sexual. If it is sexual to you, that’s a signal that you may be objectifying her.

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              10 hours ago

              Yeah, I figured someone would make this bad assumption. There are more thumbnails than just the one in this thread and wouldn’t you know, every shirt she owns shows her belly.

              I said I wasn’t slut shaming and I meant it, but she is obviously trying to look sexy, and that’s absolutely fine. There are plenty of guys with great builds wearing tank tops in YouTube thumbnails as well. I don’t blame any of them, and I’d do the same.

              Also,there is a difference between making “sexualized assumptions” about someone, and noticing that they are dressed in a sexy way. I’ve personally spent a lot of time on nudist beaches and I don’t even think complete nudity is “inherently sexual”, nevermind a midriff. That doesn’t change that she is obviously accentuating her sexual appeal for these videos. That’s not inherently a bad thing, but it’s there.

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      Idk man, for some reason sometimes I prefer the hobby videos that don’t have tits, or at least who gets more into the hobby/has better details.

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      21 hours ago

      i’m just glad we are being extremely normal about women’s bodies in this thread and not fetishizing complete strangers in public