I’ve often heard discussions about what women could use to spice up their masturbation life.
Shower heads, pillows, washing machines, electric toothbrushes, and the list goes on.
I’ve tried a lot, but most things just don’t feel that great for me as a guy. I think it’s mostly due to the fact that a dick just isn’t the same as a clit.
Most of the time I just fall back to my hands and finish the usual way. It’s a bit boring, but it works. A fleshlight feels pretty similar.
I also tried prostate stuff, but it doesn’t do that much for me. The orgasms are a bit more intense, but it isn’t worth it most of the time due to all the prep work needed.
Vibration feels nice, but the novelty wears off very quickly.
Do you have some inspiration and experiences on what might feel good?
Any underrated things one should try?
It’s mostly for the novelty for me. I’m seeking new ways to get off without having to spend a lot of money on new toys.
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Many guys don’t realize that they too can enjoy a hitachi (don’t settle for a cheap knockoff).
My fiancée got me a Lovense Gush 2
It’s quite wonderful!
Their Max 2 is good too!
It would be the end of my social life 100% 😱
Vacuum cleaner?
edit: don’t actually do this!
I did this. Instant regrer when it sucked me suddenly. That yank is painful. I heard another guy got sent to the hospital
“Cyril, machines can hurt people.”
I use a soft throw blanket. Better than doing it any other way, personally. That kind of soft thats just smooth. While it just feels better, it also means you don’t need lube to get really going, and the blanket self-cleans the mess. It’s definitely the easiest way to do it.
Wash it frequently, thoroughly, use fabric softener.
I wouldn’t recommend fucking a coconut.
Lemons are where it’s at
That’s just what a lemon stealing whore would say.
i switched to a toy and it was incredible…i could feel my dick again in like a week, apparently had been death-gripping that shit bad.
This might be hyper specific to my own kinks, but I love a good hands-free orgasm hypnosis file.
One weird thing that worked for me was pulling my sweatpants up, then humping my bed while stretching my sweatpants up.
That sounds delicious yes
What about VR porn?
In the near future I fully expect VR to be as common as using a cell phone. You choose a program and have the real sensation that you are fucking someone.
Done well it could be really quite an immersive experience. I heard someone talking about it on a podcast but no idea how that would work in practice. Presumably it depends on specially encoded video files and you can’t use a bog standard mpg format?
Yes VR Porn is amazing especially with a synchronised toy like The Handy. I use it a lot.
Care to describe your setup?
I have an Oculus Quest 3, with the DeoVR app and the SexLikeReal service. And a Handy in a handsfree 3D printed mount. I usually use the smoothest sleeve, lotus. I’m super sensitive and i like light touches. I mainly use the slower videos from VREdging
It’s got a mode for edging, you press a button and it reduces movement range so I can get really close. Often I do this for an hour or two and then stop without cumming. The next day I’ll be super sensitive, even my underwear moving turns me on lol.
That’s some dedication! I would not be able to toment myself for so long.
Holy shit, that sounds awesome. What sort of budget are we talking for a basic setup?
You’ll need a quest 3s at the minimum, those are about $250 on sale I think. SexLikeReal is 130$ per year including motion scripts (you need those for the toy sync). The DeoVR app is free.
The handy costs $126 on sale currently. Mind you that they have a new version coming in march. It’s got a better mounting plate, more range and an internal battery, the current one needs to be plugged into its power supply. Good thing though is that that means there’s no battery to run out just when you’re getting close.
https://www.thehandy.com/store/
Note that I have no commercial involvement with these, I’m just a user myself. I already had VR equipment.
The handy is the weakest link here. It often happens that the sleeve pops out or my dick pops out of the sleeve, it’s a bit of a contraption. But that’s the thing with male sex toys. It’s not as simple as for the girls who can just pop it in lol.
In my opinion it’s a whole different experience from watching porn in 2D. It does feel like you’re there much more. With the synchronized movement even more so. Cam girls too by the way, makes a world of difference. You can view those directly on SexLikeReal (they partner with Dreamcam) or on other platforms.
Thank you for the detailed reply. I had no idea the technology was so developed. UK price is a little more but seems like a basic setup is achievable under a thousand.
I love slowly rubbing on a pillow. I get so wet i really have to wear a condom with it or I’ll soak the pillow even before I cum.
But I’m pretty nontypical for a guy. I just love slow and sensual, even when having actual sex the hard and fast turns me off. I love slowly licking each other for hours, getting close to orgasm but not getting there (edging). I don’t like intercourse as much.
Nothing beats the hand. Try some hip movements though. Try to relax the ass and do some edging to make things last longer. Longer means stronger orgasm.
It’s going to be less satisfying initially, but these other options rewire your brain to open up new pleasure centres. You need to stop your standard practice for a bit and only use an alternative.
