One approach for finding people who might become friends is to join in with some local niche communities that are likely to be more inclusive of ND in an intentional way, such as polyamorous or kink groups. You might be surprised at what you discover about your own interests, but also even if you aren’t kinky or polyamorous, those communities tend to be more welcoming to everyone who is open minded regardless of whether you share their labels.
One approach for finding people who might become friends is to join in with some local niche communities that are likely to be more inclusive of ND in an intentional way, such as polyamorous or kink groups. You might be surprised at what you discover about your own interests, but also even if you aren’t kinky or polyamorous, those communities tend to be more welcoming to everyone who is open minded regardless of whether you share their labels.
Lots of overlap with autism and trans and non binary people too, my local queer space is awesome for this.