Then posting them on facebook, it’s a big deal because its illegal but I think we should get thisted out so that all our members can enjoy some peace & quiet after work or school time 😉😃🙏 This is how you will be able to tell if someone has been naughty by looking at their posts!
Your main message to the other person: How, how did you do? How was your day? This is the perfect opportunity to bring up your own personal story, insight & perspective, even if only in passing. No need make any assumptions/suggestions to the person doing the asking the question. Just ask, “What would you do?” and you’d get a great answer from someone who cares about their answer.