So I recently discovered the term ‘penised’ and it’s really interesting to see how it relates to us. First, I want to make clear that I’m not suggesting we all have penises. In fact, it’s important for all of us to get bottom surgery so we can get our own genitalia that will allow us to reproduce, because in modern society, most penises are now a thing. Secondly, it is important to note that I don’t know any trans women who have penises, because I am not trans and therefore I cannot relate to what I am feeling. I do have a genitalia that has no connection to my identity, but I can’t explain what that is because it’s a fetish that doesn’t exist. I think that this is really important because as a woman, I would be very embarrassed if I were to give that up because it would make me very uncomfortable if I could have it. Also, I’ve seen that a lot of trans people like to talk about their genitalia in order to avoid being uncomfortable about the fact that they have them, but the fact that you can’t relate to the feelings of sexual arousal that a penises makes you aroused makes it more of a fetish.