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Cake day: June 26th, 2025

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  • Oh, we both enjoy out alone time as well, usually when we’re home we’ll be in separate rooms and feel content with it. It’s by talking that I know she feels bad sometimes when I’ve gone out for a beer with a friend, because it reminds her of how lonely she is. This is why I feel bad for going out, even though she has reassured me that it’s OK that I do.

    What I miss is probably the time when I could go out without feeling bad for her sake.



  • OhShitSon@lemmy.zipOPtoOff My Chest@lemmy.worldI kind of miss being single
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    6 days ago

    Yeah, it’s what we give up for loved ones. I had a banger of a night with a friend last year before his daughter arrived, we went on a pub crawl which ended up with us joining up with a couple of 18-19 year olds celebrating a friends birthday. We all had a great time and went home around at 4ish AM.

    I guess it’s just a part of moving into a new stage of life, I kind of wish my 20s lasted longer lol.


  • I will most likely end up deleting this, even though I highly doubt she would find this.

    We do things together that we both like almost every weekend, be it museum visits, taking a hike in the woods, or just watching a movie. We’ve been together for 8 years, but we’re in our 30s now, she gets along with my friends, I just wish she had some of her own.

    My feelings aren’t bitter honestly, I just would feel better if she went out to do things without me more often.